I didn’t handle it perfectly. I spiraled. I shut down. I learned the hard way what regret, worry, guilt, and fear can do when they take over your mind.
But I also bounced back. Not overnight. Over years. Through real life. Through rebuilding. Through learning how to come back to the present instead of living in yesterday and tomorrow.
Then at 48, I had a heart attack—and it changed something in me.
Not because I was scared into becoming a different person… but because it woke me up. It made everything I’d learned feel urgent and clear. I realized my life wasn’t meant to just “get through” things anymore. It was meant to help other people get through them—especially the ones who feel confused or stuck, even though they’re doing what they were told.
That’s what All You Have Is Today is.
Not a highlight reel. Not a motivational speech. A simple method I’ve lived—so when life gets loud, you have a way to return to today, find your footing, and take the next small step forward. If you’re in a tough spot—or you’re tired of pretending you’re fine—I wrote this for you.